Visiting Bobby's Parents for Chuseok & Laughs with In-Laws
Using the original information published on YouTube.
This Chuseok, we visited the columbarium where Bobby's parents rest.
Bringing fresh chrysanthemums with loving remembrance, we paid our respects and then headed to Gimpo with his sister's family for a delicious grilled jumbo shrimp feast.
Later at a cafe, we completely lost track of time chatting—from the close bond between the sisters-in-law to lighthearted future baby talk.
It was such a warm, joyful day spent with family.
Did you all make wonderful memories and enjoy good food with your families this holiday? Tell us your heartwarming stories in the comments!
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Chapters
- Highlights↗
- On our way to see Bobby's parents↗
- Preparing fresh chrysanthemum flowers↗
- Paying respects at the columbarium↗
- Arriving at the Gimpo shrimp restaurant & lottery tickets↗
- Grilled jumbo shrimp feast with family↗
- Shrimp ramen with our nephew↗
- Arriving at the cafe overlooking Ganghwa Choji Bridge↗
- Foreign daughter-in-law talk & parenting pledge↗
- Chuseok holiday greetings & closing↗
Transcript
Transcript
For Mom and Dad?
Yeah, I got them ready, Oppa.
They're fresh flowers.
Oppa, if we win the lottery here?
I might even consider a second baby.
In the whole world, eating it like this...
Our country might be the only one.
Because it's cruel?
Such a patriarchal look. Nice to see.
Sena said she wants a foreign daughter-in-law.
She realized foreign daughters-in-law are great.
The moment she saw her,
"Why is she even dating you?"
If unnie could write a pledge...
What kind of pledge?
Olha.
It's Chuseok, say something to our subscribers!
Have a safe trip back home,
eat lots of delicious food,
make wonderful memories with your family,
and get plenty of rest!
It's short this time, and Chuseok is on Saturday...
Why isn't there a substitute holiday?
Something feels wrong about this.
But you know what?
This video goes up after Chuseok.
Olha, could you go easier on the brakes?
Feels like I'm riding a taxi.
It is a taxi. You have to pay when you get off, Oppa.
Oppa, where do you think we're going?
To see Mom and Dad,
meet Sena, and eat jumbo shrimp.
You peel and eat them well without my help.
Right, because you're way too slow, Oppa.
That's Olha's strong point.
When we see Mom and Dad today,
what are you going to tell them?
That I'm trying to persuade you, but it's not working,
so I need their help.
If Mother were here, there'd really be no problem.
She would totally take Olha's side.
And Mother told us back then to definitely have a daughter.
Telling you that no more sons are allowed.
(Mom...)
We have two daughters and one son,
so Mom must have felt daughters are better too.
About 30 minutes left.
Please be careful with the brakes.
Yes, yes, Olha is doing her best!
Got it.
Yes~
Pretty, right?
For Mom and Dad?
Yeah, I prepared them, Oppa.
They're fresh flowers.
They're beautiful.
Do you know what chrysanthemums mean?
I don't.
They say it's a flower that expresses longing.
Your big sister is here, say hello.
Let's go.
Are all the letters gone?
They throw them away periodically here.
It's actually not allowed.
It feels like only a year for Dad,
but it's already been 3 years.
It's already been 3 years for Dad.
And 4 years for Mom.
Time flies so fast.
It really feels like just yesterday.
(I still miss them as time passes)
Did you say what you wanted to Mom and Dad?
I said a lot.
I complained about you a bit, Oppa.
Told them you don't listen to Olha,
and that you live recklessly without your parents around.
My heart feels so heavy.
I can't believe it, they left us way too early.
That's true.
We have to live our best lives, Oppa.
That way, they can look down on us
from heaven and be happy.
And we can meet them again later.
Mom, Dad, and Deman, too.
Yeah.
Since we're hungry, let's go eat shrimp that Olha loves!
Yeah, since we came to Gimpo.
There are so many people!
Right? It's shrimp season, so there are quite a few people.
Must be a famous spot.
Gimpo has delicious shrimp.
You definitely have to come here.
They're huge, right?
Oppa, give me your hand.
Olha, can you eat this raw?
Olha shouldn't eat raw food now, Oppa.
Why?
I can't because I'm trying to conceive.
Are you preparing all by yourself?
(Queen of Preparation)
Oppa, just sit still.
Okay, I'll stay still the whole time.
Yeah.
Is it a Chuseok gift?
I feel like we're gonna win.
Win?
If you win, will you share it with me?
We gotta split it evenly.
Fly me business class when we travel!
Let's go to the US.
This is such a lucky spot.
Oppa, if we win here...
we can even think about a second baby.
(?????)
Why are you laughing so much?
We haven't even properly planned for our first child yet,
and you're already thinking about a second?
Olha, so many 1st prize winners came from this place.
That's really amazing.
What if we actually win?
I feel like the owner must feel a bit cheated.
No way, the owner makes so much money from this.
Oh, really?
The owner is the one who hit the jackpot!
Should we open a place like this?
What if our store doesn't get a 1st prize winner?
Then business won't go well.
Then we could just write a sign saying so...
You'll get caught.
You'll get arrested.
You got the lottery ticket, so make sure to check it later.
Not much longer now, Oppa.
We're finally heading in.
I'm so excited!
You definitely need kids.
So they can pour you a beer when you get older.
Thank you.
Lucky you, Olha.
Since you're drinking, you don't have to drive.
Are you having somaek?
People in their 20s really are built different.
Ooh, looks so delicious!
Oh, it's cruel, but looks yummy.
Are you excited?
We come here every year, though.
We always eat this for Chuseok.
It's just so delicious.
Eating it like this...
Korea might be the only country in the world that does it.
Because it's cruel?
Look closely, Oppa.
Your niece is taking good care of us.
She was definitely raised well.
So when we have a baby, we can just leave them with your sister.
Since she succeeded once!
She does raise them a bit strictly, though.
(Awesome)
Oh, it's cooked so well.
(Pure bliss)
My sister is a real pro.
She said she ate shrimp five times this year.
(King God Shrimp)
Go ahead and try some.
Oppa, the elders haven't eaten yet.
How can Olha eat first?
Just show some bad manners for once!
And Oppa, the heads are definitely the best part!
Be careful, it's hot.
Here, Oppa.
Thank you.
Is it good?
It's good because Olha peeled it, right?
Look at Oppa's future:
Olha and the baby doing all this for you,
while you just sit there!
Look at how patriarchal you are, what a lovely sight.
Sitting there without lifting a single finger...
what a great sight.
I'll dig in now.
It goes so well with beer.
Must be nice, getting to drink.
I'm in such a great mood today!
Show me how to eat it.
I'll show you.
Take off the horn,
remove the legs,
and right here...
Now, you try.
Take off the horn,
remove the legs...
It's so delicious.
This is actually the main dish.
Olha, the main dish is here!
My main dish!
This is your last one for this week, you know that, right?
Since it's Chuseok, can't I have a bit more ramen?
No.
Oppa, you need to take care of your health now.
It really looks like a main dish, right?
Wait Oppa, why are there no shrimps for Olha?
I kept them so I could peel them for you.
This is our nephew.
My sister's son.
What was the most delicious?
Ramen!
As expected, the main dish is best, right?
That's definitely the main dish.
Uncle thinks the exact same thing.
I mean, there were five shrimp in the ramen.
It's way better to just order five bowls of ramen.
I think that's better value.
Right?
No, really, that's cheaper than 1kg.
We have to go to the next stop now.
Yes, round two now.
Let's go.
So, do you want to live in Gimpo?
Olha, would you be okay with it?
I'm totally fine with it.
I'm good with it.
Since your sister offered to babysit for us.
Ah, is that the reason?
(Already decided)
So I think living close by would be great.
Olha has it all planned out.
I have to eat this one, this.
Is it a donut?
No.
Why do you want that one?
It definitely looks delicious.
I want this raspberry one.
Ah, I'm eating that one!!!
Eat that one too.
I said I'm eating that one!!!
(Listen to me)
The bread here is really delicious though.
We're going so many places today.
It's a Gimpo tour.
Isn't this basically Ganghwa?
If you cross over from here, it's Ganghwa.
What bridge did you say it was?
Choji.
The view is amazing here.
You shouldn't cut this.
You have to bite into it whole like this,
so the cream bursts out—that's the best.
I came up with a life plan for Jihoon.
He goes to the military in September, right?
After he gets discharged, he learns Japanese.
Then he goes to study abroad in Japan.
Then get a job at an IT or gaming company there.
After that, meet a Japanese woman and get married.
Sena says she wants a foreign daughter-in-law.
I realized having a foreign daughter-in-law is great.
That's all thanks to Olha.
I think we get along well.
Why do you think you get along so well as in-laws?
As a "little mother-in-law"?
Saying this might sound a bit like I'm generalizing,
but personally,
I really hate people who say one thing to your face
and something else behind your back.
Not that everyone is bad,
but some people act all sweet, saying "I'd love to!"
and then whine to their husbands, "Isn't she annoying?"
I really can't stand that.
I don't act like that either.
If you're upset, I'd rather you just tell me honestly.
If I ask, "Want to cook together?"
and they say "Sure, sounds great!"
only to complain later that it was exhausting...
Instead of doing that,
I'd prefer if they just said, "Can we eat out instead?"
I'd like that much better.
What if your daughter-in-law says, "I really hate that!"?
I don't think I'd be an overbearing mother-in-law.
If she doesn't want to come, I'll tell her not to.
Or Ji-hoon can just visit alone.
So what is Mom's vision for her son's future?
The future I envision is,
Ji-hoon goes to the military next year,
then returns to university.
Then he goes to a partner university
in Japan.
That year counts toward his degree, right?
Then over there, a beautiful Japanese lady...
In the end, that's your goal!
Ultimately, you just want him to marry a Japanese girl
as your daughter-in-law.
I've been staring at this the whole time.
Can't you cut it yourself?
Always so patriarchal!
I was watching to see when you'd cut it.
This is the signature menu I came here to try.
For my patriarchal husband...
He barely lifts a finger.
Even with the fork and knife right in front of him,
he won't move a muscle, except when driving.
Give us a taste review.
I don't think this is it.
It's good, it's good.
Jihoon, that's uncle and mom's plan,
are you open to dating a Japanese girl?
Sure, of course I am.
First of all, you just want to date.
Japanese or Korean, it doesn't matter.
Then are you okay with a European too?
Yes.
Since I got rejected at a crucial time...
I'm totally fine with it.
Grandma was already surprised by Olha,
so our family is used to it.
I had never thought of a foreign girl,
so when I first showed them her photo,
I said things might go well, and I'd let them know if they did.
The moment they saw it,
"Why would she date you?"
(Seriously)
My big sister said that too.
Mom said that too.
"Why would she date you?"
"No way it's gonna work."
But when you said you were dating Olha,
what you said was really surprising.
You said you really wanted to take care of Olha.
I had never heard him say that before.
Her dorm was cold and small,
and being a foreigner was hard on her,
so he was so worried and wanted to take care of her.
I'd never heard such words come out of his mouth.
He's a sweet guy.
Saccharin boy, right?
Right, right, Oppa, you're right.
(Reluctant agreement)
I think Jihoon will treat a girl well.
Jihoon will 100% treat her well.
You need that kind of heart to date a girl.
Can you sign a written pledge,
What kind of pledge?
promising to babysit when our baby is born?
How many times a week you'll come.
I can sign a pledge.
How many hours a month you can babysit.
You guys sign one too.
What do we have to do for Jihoon?
Take responsibility for his job!
You must know a lot of people.
So help him write his resume,
and submit applications there.
How about HanuCouple's YouTube PD?
Yeah, right. They could edit for us.
I can babysit!
When you guys go somewhere, I can watch the baby.
You won't have to worry about trips.
On your way to Gimpo Airport,
you can just drop the baby off, Oppa.
And when you go visit Busan,
you can leave the baby there and enjoy your trip.
That sounds awesome.
We should get a written pledge first, just in case.
So you can't change your mind later.
She said she'd prefer a boy.
I used to prefer a boy too, but...
either is great!
Then how about the name Lee Leo?
Leo is cute for a boy,
and Lena would be pretty for a girl.
So we all share the "-na" sound.
Mina, Sena, Lena.
So Oppa, we've agreed on this, right?
That's Olha's catchphrase these days.
Whenever anything happens, "We've agreed, right?"
(Queen of Agreement)
If you have a name in mind, Olha will let you choose.
But in a family, we have to vote like this.
We already voted.
No, you can just run a campaign!
Let's take a vote.
Even with five votes from Busan,
and Mom's friends and all the aunts,
I think I'd still lose.
Even with all of Korea, I feel like I'd lose.
You'd lose on YouTube too.
Just accept it.
I'd better wrap up today's video here.
You'll feel at peace once you accept it.
Exactly.
I'll try to accept it for now.
Okay, anyway.
We had a great time!
See you next week!
Get home safe, Jihun.
Take care!
Bye~
Ah, that was so much fun, Oppa.
Let's head out too now.
We did a lot today.
We sure did.
We ate delicious shrimp,
and baby-lighted Oppa a ton,
It was so nice to see family.
I love Chuseok every year.
After all, we met during Chuseok.
The first time I slept over at your place
was on Chuseok.
Every Chuseok is an anniversary.
Things have changed a lot, though.
Back then, during Chuseok...
I was living in a dorm back then.
Everywhere was closed,
but nowadays cafes are open, they sell shrimp,
so it's pretty amazing.
Ten years ago, you couldn't dream of that.
You just went to a convenience store,
bought a triangle kimbap, and starved.
The world has gotten so much better.
That's right.
Olha married well!
That's true, Oppa.
Not because I like you,
but because I love your family.
Oppa's family is Olha's family now.
Even when you go to Japan,
we party with your sisters.
A party without Oppa!
Now we're going to make a master plan.
A plan to win you over.
Since your sisters have a lot of experience,
(Scared)
they said they'd teach me what to do.
Good luck planning it.
Are you going to pitch it to me?
I hope everyone had a wonderful Chuseok,
and stays healthy and happy,
and continues to watch over us.
In the future, good news...
we'll do our best to share a lot of it!
And as always,
please subscribe, like, hype,
and comment!
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