What Korean Sisters-in-Law Thought of the Foreign Daughter-in-Law?! 🤫 Int'l Marriage Family Reaction
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🇺🇦💖🇰🇷 Hanu Couple's behind-the-scenes! The sisters-in-law finally share their real story of international marriage! What were their first reactions when Bobby Oppa decided to marry a foreigner? Find out their honest first impressions and hidden feelings about the foreign daughter-in-law, Olha! 🔥 Was it opposition or welcome? Watch the reality of a multicultural couple's in-laws story now!
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But Sena said earlier,
Why is this friend meeting Bobby?
I still think that.
Oppa, what day is today?
Today is the day your sisters are coming.
Then we should have a glass of wine tonight.
No~ What are you drinking~
You ladies drink among yourselves.
You ladies should talk among yourselves.
Now you'll swear at Oppa,
are you swearing at me?
Right, because Oppa
keeps saying we can't raise a dog.
No dogs.
Because we have cats.
Everyone,
I want to raise a dog, but
Oppa keeps saying no.
I don't know what to do.
Suji is old, so no.
If the dog is old, it's fine.
Did you suggest filming to talk about dogs?
No.
Everyone, please help me in the comments.
No dogs allowed.
And we're not a dog YouTube channel.
We could become a dog YouTube channel.
Oppa,
you keep watching
dog YouTube channels.
I watch dog YouTube channels separately,
since I don't raise one.
Then now I don't need Oppa anymore.
I can just raise it at home.
Then what should Olha do
to allow it?
You have to be cautious.
Olha is cautious.
Taking in and raising a new life means
you must decide cautiously
with the thought of taking responsibility for its entire life.
Exactly!!
But Olha,
it's not like she just thought of this today,
she has been contemplating it
for several years now.
Think about it a bit more.
If the sisters say OK, what will you do?
I'll have to think about it, right?
Really?
Then we should talk properly today.
Just the three of us today.
Because I think we can have fun just us girls.
I'm looking forward to it.
Have fun~
Oppa should be at home, but.
You guys figure it out.
First, since my sisters are coming today.
Let's eat something delicious together.
And what my sisters think of Olha.
And.
After hearing Oppa was going to marry a foreigner.
What did they think?
I'm curious too
Do you want to hear that?
From your sisters?
At first, it was like, "Absolutely no way."
Was it that kind of thought or
Was it a thought that you wished someone would take them?
Get ready to be shocked.
Oh!!
Oh? He was home?
Uh? Bobby was there?
Looks like something of Oppa's arrived?
He brought a whole bunch of luggage?
Well, of course.
Why are you filming this?
I got off at Seoul Station at 3 o'clock, but
Did you just arrive now?
Chinese people were lost.
I helped them a little.
Indeed.
They got off at City Hall.
Those people said they were going to Hongdae Entrance.
But they couldn't find Hongdae Entrance.
So I took them to where they could transfer to Line 2.
I told them about Hongdae Entrance Station.
And I took Line 1 again and came back.
Well done.
So it took a bit long.
Is the subway complicated?
It's complicated.
After coming from Busan, it feels even more complicated.
Olha said there's something she wants to photograph.
But I need to ask my sisters if they can appear
We can't say no now, can we?
So what do you want to film?
What do you want to film?
Just
Oppa at first,
what was the reaction when he said he was meeting Olha?
And if he wasn't worried because she's a foreigner
Can I speak honestly?
Okay, go ahead and film~
Don't you have a script? A script?
We don't have anything like a script
We just film whatever
We film and make the editing hard
At first when I heard that story
what it was like
So I thought Olha
might be shocked
But I didn't hear it from Bobby
in person
probably by phone
he said he was meeting someone
But he said it wasn't the dating stage yet
So
he said he would tell me if they started dating
Usually Bobby
is open about it when he's seeing someone
Always
Then he was always talking about meeting someone, wasn't he?
Indeed
that he kept meeting many people haha
Oppa, let's talk after it's over.
So, when I kept asking,
they said she was a foreigner.
Huh?!?
So, they sent me a picture.
When I saw it, I was really, really surprised.
So pretty.
Because they showed me a foreigner's picture.
After hearing up to that point,
First, I didn't ask any more questions.
Because I didn't know what would happen.
When I showed the picture, my sister
Why would she meet you?
At that time, Olha was really
you know, the one taken at that restaurant.
I still remember that picture.
You were wearing a plaid shirt.
You were dressed very ordinarily, but you looked really pretty.
That's strange.
Isn't that wrong?
I asked where you were from.
You said you were from Ukraine.
And told me that.
At that time, Mom was very shocked.
Because I wasn't here.
Sena gave a slight hint like this.
It seems Bobby is seeing someone.
It's not at the dating stage yet.
But Sena said that earlier.
Why is this friend dating Bobby?
I still think that way now.
No, it's a joke, a joke.
I don't really know either.
That was really a joke, and
I think they suit each other really well.
That's about now, and
The story from when they first met is a bit
perplexing, and
What I asked at first was
"Do you speak Korean well?" I asked.
Because we don't speak English, but
(they said) Bobby speaks Korean very well.
So I thought, that's a real relief, and
But honestly, when they said they were dating,
Is that okay?
To be honest,
it's kinda like marriage,
in order to live in Korea,
isn't she dating a Korean man?
There's that kind of thing, right?
Why is she dating him?
That thought just popped into my head.
But Mom is even more old-fashioned,
Right?
And then later,
Olha, what if she leaves our Bobby?
after acquiring Korean citizenship and Bobby...
Because I'm
a very suspicious person by nature.
Well, Mom, of course,
would have worried like that because it's her child,
she's not a common foreigner, is she?
Because it's unfamiliar, because it's strange,
she gets scared.
Was it your birthday?
After seeing her for the first time,
Mom's mind completely changed.
Mom asked if she had any intention to marry right away.
That's right! That's right!
Mom had only heard about her verbally,
but after seeing Olha's true self that day,
I think that aspect of Mom was really beautiful
at first, when I said I had a girlfriend.
I said to Mom, "She's a foreigner," and then
You someday a foreigner
might bring, thinking that
you said you were thinking
But
In Mom's opinion, Japanese people or Asians
she was thinking of
She was thinking of a Japanese person a bit.
But her hair is blonde
and her eyes are blue
when I said, "She's completely Western."
Mom was a bit shocked there
and after seeing the photo, she was even more shocked
But why would she meet you?
Everyone says the same thing.
But my question still hasn't been answered,
Why are you meeting Bobby?
It's a question lol
Because there's a big age difference,
And she came from a foreign country,
Doesn't she understand Korean culture yet?
I'm curious too.
You already asked that first.
There's such a big age difference,
Is she okay with that?
But in her country, that's not that big of a deal.
In our country, even a five or six-year difference
Is felt to be a lot,
So why are you meeting?
Oppa said he'd buy me a puppy.
I never said I'd buy a puppy.
I meet him because Oppa treats me well.
Because I like Oppa.
Not because he's handsome?
He is handsome too, but.
He's delicate.
He does well, right?
Even though he grumbles a bit.
Right, he's a tsundere.
Even though he says no in words.
He does everything for me.
But a puppy, no.
After saying this, when he comes next time.
Won't there be a puppy?
This is not the topic.
And
When we first met
On Oppa's birthday
How was it then?
And Ukrainian food
You can't really say it's not delicious
With paprika and something like that
I found that really delicious
What was its name?
That farshyrovaniye pertzy
The difficult one
I think I was a bit surprised when I first saw her then too
Olha in black
body-hugging dress
was wearing a one-piece dress
That's right, that's right
Because it's clothing that Korean people usually don't wear
And I really
It wasn't 'Why did you wear something like that?'.
Wow! So you can wear clothes like that.
I intentionally wore something that covered a lot, but.
In my mind, I tried to cover as much as possible, but.
She really liked it.
Was it when Mom was going home at the end?
Did Olha hug Mom first?
And then.
Mom kept talking about it while coming home.
Saying it was good, saying it was very good.
So probably after that.
when we meet, we hug each other.
That was really good.
But we all originally liked physical affection, right?
My family is the touchy type, so.
Even though it was the first time with Olha.
It wasn't that flustering or.
Rather, it was good.
It must have been this kind of feeling.
What I mean is.
From Mom's perspective.
She might feel uncomfortable with me, right?
But since Olha did that first.
It seems Mom felt it was really unique.
Mom seems to be the type who accepts things well.
Really, everything in a good way.
Actually, if you think about it in a twisted way.
Why did she wear something like that?
But mom doesn't have that at all.
Our mom also likes to dress well, you know.
She's very interested, you know.
Mom likes it.
If mom didn't like clothes, or
wasn't interested in clothes,
it's their first meeting, but
our mom really likes clothes and dresses well,
and she has a lot of interest in fashion,
and because she even used to make clothes in the past,
rather, that could have been
a plus.
She wore pretty clothes?
If Olha was dressed shabbily
She would have hated that even more.
Still, for such a young friend
If they wear clothes that suit them
My mom sees such things favorably.
But
The decision to get married
Was there a decisive turning point?
More than her deciding,
Bobby deciding is truly more amazing.
It's like there really is a match for everyone.
I thought that.
I'm more curious about you.
After meeting,
Since they had the wedding exactly when it was one year
It's true they did it very quickly.
I talked with my sisters and mother,
and told them I was thinking of marriage.
I also received a proposal,
and then in an instant, now
I'm in the wedding hall?
There was no time to think.
Bobby was very worried.
Oh, really?
You know the dorm.
He said he couldn't leave this one alone there.
He was very anxious,
saying he couldn't leave this one alone there.
So you think that too.
The dorm is small,
and in our house's case,
we were living on a jeonse contract.
I thought she would be more comfortable if she came in and stayed.
There was also the time when the dormitory contract ended.
And when I saw Olha about three times.
I thought it would be okay to get married.
Seeing how she treated my mom.
Seeing how she treated my sisters.
I thought I could live very well with this person if we got married.
This thought suddenly came to me.
When marrying Olha, Bobby first.
The thought of marriage.
Said he had it.
My curiosity goes here.
Why did you say it was okay?
At that time, Oppa was so good to me from the start
And now?
He also makes a lot of time for me
KakaoTalk communication is always good too
And the men I dated before then?
They must have been really bad
They were all really, really bad
And then I met (him)
exactly the ideal type I had imagined
someone who is good to me
everything is here (with him)
So you had a style you liked?
Of course, Olha
The people she dated before that
There must have been a few, right?
Of course, I thought
everyone treated you well.
I thought so too.
Because Olha is such a good
person, I assumed men
would recognize that and treat her well.
I thought
they would have treated
you better than Bobby, but Bobby was the best?
Be grateful to them.
That's a relief, a huge relief.
Because they treated you so poorly,
Oppa ended up being the good one?
What kind of people did you meet?
Tell them
thank you.
Thank you. So Bobby was the best.
Oppa is still the best, you know that, right?
I know. Honey~ You're
the best too, honey.
Then the married life I thought about at that time
Is the married life I'm living now the same?
The married life I thought about
I wanted to meet someone whose house isn't far away.
Bobby said a few things.
But first of all,
I can't communicate with my mother-in-law and father-in-law
and it's so good.
And then when my mother-in-law came
while eating the meal my mother made,
because there's not much I can do.
Isn't that too honest?
I say "It's delicious, it's delicious" and things like that
and say I love you to Mom.
It's good, but where Mom wants to go,
I take her.
Because my mother-in-law also
can't communicate with me.
Isn't it good for my mother-in-law too?
Well, she could be like that (I love you, Mother-in-law).
When the war in Ukraine ends,
like going on a trip,
because we can go once or twice every one or two years.
Anyway, that wasn't the biggest thing.
Olha went with her aunts and Mom
to Yeouido
to see the flowers.
At that time, after Mom came back,
Mom and her aunts
Sent me a lot of text messages.
The aunts praised her a lot.
She's very pretty and kind.
How can she be so polite?
She seems to know so much about Korea.
The aunts really liked her.
The aunts didn't object.
They had a lot of fun.
took pictures, and I also liked it.
It seemed like their sincerity was felt.
At that time, Olha really liked them.
Mom talked a lot about that.
Because.
she's a foreigner.
Even for her to become family like this.
is an amazing thing.
It's so natural how we get
along like this, I always feel
it whenever I see it, it feels
like we naturally blend in.
When Olha saw them, how were the sisters?
I liked them from the start.
We were super close since
childhood, and they both got
married well, and I heard so
many stories about them both
living happily, so I
thought, since Oppa has seen
a lot of this, Oppa can also
build a harmonious family.
I had that thought.
And when we lived in the old house,
they stopped by for a moment then,
The house was also very clean.
It was really good.
The whole family seemed like such a perfect family.
Everyone was so organized.
These kinds of things seem really important.
Don't come to my house anymore.
We have three children, so.
The family together like this, so comfortably.
Everyone was so kind and.
Treated me well from the beginning, so.
I also felt really good.
The nephews and nieces are of a certain age now, so.
But.
Even at that age.
They walk hand in hand.
Follow mom and dad around.
Also follow their uncle around nicely.
Certainly, compared to other families I've seen.
They seem to get along well and harmoniously.
I think it's good.
I made a resolution.
Given our country's culture.
If there are many older sisters-in-law.
They say it makes things very difficult.
"It must be difficult because there are two older sisters."
People say things like this.
But when Bobby marries someone or.
Even if he gets a girlfriend.
I must never bother them.
Not even call at all.
And I must not even meet them.
I really thought that, honestly.
I should hide.
I shouldn't appear.
Let's not reveal myself.
I should wish Bobby happiness.
I really thought that, honestly.
But on the contrary, because he has older sisters.
I think I got to see Oppa better.
How one should treat women.
He knows these kinds of things well.
Right, that's right.
What women like and dislike.
Because he knows well.
I think having older sisters has such advantages.
Sena trained me well.
because I did well,
so that I could become a pro attendant.
I handed it over to you.
When I was at home,
doing errands was almost a hobby.
the people who gave orders were not just one or two.
Sena ordered me, Mom ordered me,
and Dad would tell me to go buy something.
But
that didn't feel that bad.
If my sister said, "Go to the mart and buy some snacks,"
"Time me how many seconds it takes."
I pressed the timer, went, and came back.
Usually at home, if there's only one son,
preciously,
it should be done to him,
the focus is completely fixed on the older sisters,
Bobby sleeps in a small room, or
really, the child...
I think it's better to raise them that way instead.
Boys,
you can raise them roughly like that.
No, usually they don't raise them like that.
giving you a separate room,
older sisters prepare meals for you,
they raise them like that a lot.
I also make the food.
I even prepared ramen for them and
Ramen, he's the one who cooks and brings it.
I've never even prepared a meal for Bobby?
Not even once did I
even think about or do such a thing.
Since I was little, Mom
seems to have given up on me.
This one has no future.
So now that I'm married
how do you feel seeing how I live?
I was worried you'd grow old and die as an elderly person living alone.
I worried a lot.
Sometimes I tell our kids,
"Later, Uncle Bobby
you have to check up on him sometimes."
Because Uncle Bobby
is not married yet,
he's good to his nephews and nieces.
He sends them pocket money,
takes care of them on their birthdays,
and celebrates Christmas.
Every time he takes care of them like this, our kids
are so thankful.
They say things like, "We love you, Uncle."
It's good to receive such things, but
later, when Uncle Bobby gets old
and there's no one to take care of him,
then you must definitely look after him.
When I say such things occasionally, the kids are still young, so
"I got it!" without even knowing what it means.
Anyway, let's end this like this then.
Now let's go eat.
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